Your students are going to react to the material and experiences the way they
see you react. If you demonstrate: belief and confidence in the ultimate worth
of the program; strict conformance to schedules; and maintain your role as a
leader, they will act accordingly.
If you abandon your role as a leader, let the members "run the show," change
the schedule, start and end haphazardly, or conduct a unit with no advance
planning, then the total program will deteriorate.
Show your personal interest and enthusiasm, dedication of time for planning,
complete familiarity with each unit, and leadership in conducting the program as
it is conceived and laid out this will be an invaluable contribution to the
lives of your students.
- Start on time and end on time. If you start waiting for the stragglers
before you start, each session will start a little later. By allowing this
to happen, you are teaching them to be late. If the students know you start
the minute you are scheduled to start, they will learn to be prompt. The
ones who are not would be late regardless of when you started. The material
for each unit could be stretched into three times the length scheduled. But
then it would start dragging. Keep it crisp and keep it moving. Conform to
the schedule. If students always wish they had a little more time, you will
retain their appetite for the program. It is designed with this in mind.
- Do not project the "Boss Image." Lead, do not scold, embarrass, or make
jokes about any student, even if the viewpoint expressed is different from
the group or yours.
- Learn the names of your students. Mix with them and call them by name.
- Get your students to mix. Build a cohesive spirit in the group. Make the
individual problems the groups’ problem. If an individual asks you a
question, respond by asking, "That’s an interesting question. Do you mind if
I open this question up to the rest of the class?" You should become an
example of correct attitude rather than an authority. Turn all questions
into class projects. The growth will then be the students’.
- Do not get into any "contest" with your students about what is right or
wrong.
- Every student must learn to identify with other students. This is part
of understanding and growth. It is done through group involvement of common
problems. You should not overpower or in any way restrict this.
- Be the image of what the program instills. Be enthusiastic, cheerful,
positive and considerate.
- Be the first one on the spot. Make sure you are ready. Arrange your
material so you are fully prepared to conduct your lessons.
- Avoid abrupt commands such as "stop!" Comments such as "Let’s get
started," or "The time is up," imply a more casual leadership style. Your
conduct should be suggestive rather than autocratic.